This does not mean to be rude or completely insensitive to those you do care about, but it is literally impossible to please everyone. Each person you are involved with throughout your day has their own ideas, their own agenda, their own personality, their own history, their own set of issues and values. Therefor, it only makes sense that you have to do what is right for you. Equally so, that means so does everyone else.
We are all flawed in some way or another, there is no perfect human being. We can not take the actions or words of others personally. What they do, be or say is not about us. Just as what we do, be or say is not about them. (Unless you take it personally!) We cannot control how others are going to react to our actions, or lack thereof. But if you take things personally, you are giving away that control. You are giving away your power. Your life is about you and what is going on, just as their life is about them.
If others want to lie, blame, shame, disrespect, get mad or jealous, that is on them. That is how THEY choose to be, what they choose to do or how they choose to speak. How you react to others is on YOU. That is what you are in control of.
Ask yourself: What are some areas of my life where I would like to have peace and freedom by no longer taking things personally?
Learning and mastering this agreement is transformational! It is a life changing principle that will provide you the great peace and freedom that you deserve.